#BelieveInHappy @TheFunkyPigeon Happy Bag REVIEW and GIVEAWAY #WorldMentalHealthDay @MindCharity

All cards on the table here guys. I don’t know what it is; the change in seasons, the leap in development of the kids, or even just because I’ve been doing a lot of soul searching lately, but over the past few weeks, I’ve been feeling a bit low.

And I’m telling you this, because it’s okay to admit it. I have talked about it with a couple of close friends, family, and of course Dad Muddling Through. I’ve analysed why I’ve been feeling so prickly and tearful, a bit sorry for myself and tried desperately to find the answers of how to ‘fix’ the way I’ve been feeling. Which, for the record, is a bit lonely, undervalued and, I suppose, lost.

In truth, I don’t think there are really any answers. Having thrown myself into my kids for the past six years, neglecting some of my own relationships outside these four walls, and being without a second dimension of ‘a workplace’ for four years, I’ve come to realise that I am finding life as a stay at home Mum a bit lonely. Yes I have good weeks, and yes I realise I am bloody lucky to live in a pretty much idyllic existence but sometimes that just doesn’t equate to skipping along the school run.  As a sociable person, and one who has always been a high achiever academically and professionally,  I guess I just miss the the outside world, a world that doesn’t revolve around what’s for tea and whether the tumble drier has finished.

Talking has helped. Reading has helped. Writing it down has helped. I’ve acknowledged that in the next 12 months, until the girls are both at school, I could explore the options to get me out and possibly back in a part time role again. Or even, before then if I really wanted to (which I don’t, and deciding that has helped me embrace the positives too). I’ve made plans to keep myself busy – for the girls, for the family, but most of all, for me. Ultimately, I know that I will be fine, but that in order for that to happen I need to be kind to myself, and keep an eye on those emotions. The most important thing is being honest with myself, and with those closest to me, that I have been struggling a little. Because if I can’t do that, how can I expect to even begin to put things right.

Amidst this strange old head space I was contacted by Funky Pigeon who have just launched a brand new set of wellness cards, gifts and products in collaboration with the mental health charity Mind. They wondered if I’d be interested in checking out some of the new range, and to share it with you.

Believe In Happy campaign logo

Forever one to endorse the importance of being open and talking about mental health, I didn’t hesitate. And so, a few days later, after a particularly tough 48 hours a parcel arrived with my name on it.

World Mental Health day

As I unwrapped the Happy Bag inside the parcel, I felt quite emotional. It honestly seemed as though the universe was sending me a sign. This bag has been designed by one of the team at Funky Pigeon, Amy Steele, who has herself battled and survived post natal depression, involving hospitalisation in a mother and baby unit. Amy is a survivor, a positive story of hope, and someone who through her creations at Funky Pigeon is able to create something marvellous to touch other peoples lives, and help them see a way through the darkness.

The happy bag I received contained five simple items which had been put together with a tremendous amount of thought (and a rather lovely canvas tote bag too, so that’s a bonus sixth item right?).

HAPPY Book by Fearne Cotton.

I’ve always loved a positive read, and my bedside table is piled high with self help books from all sorts of inspirational people. This particular one by the nations much loved Fearne has been on my Amazon wish list for ages, and now I have a copy of my own I literally cannot wait to read myself happier. Reading in itself is for me an exercise in mindfullness – a place to escape the present and focus in another place for a while, a moment of deserved indulgence and me time, a place to relax and unwind, and learn something new.

Pukka Herbs 7 day night time kit

Now this again is almost too spooky. Dad Muddling Through and I are huge drinkers of Pukka Night time, and this kit came at the right moment of reaching the end of the box. It also contains night time supplements, which are new for me to try, and I’m all for optimising the ability to recuperate mentally with a truly decent nights sleep.

The Happy Journal

A product of #BelieveInHappy, Funky Pigeon’s collab with Mind, this blank journal serves a brilliant purpose. A place to write down thoughts, fears, as well as the things you are grateful for, plans for the future and things to make you smile. I have journaled many significant moments in my life – my wedding plans from engagement right through to honeymoon, when we lost our second daughter I kept a daily journal documenting every last detail of the process and how I felt, and of course, this very blog is essentially a shared journal too. I have been after a gratitude diary for a while and that’s exactly what I will use mine for – a place to jot down three positive affirmations each day to help me focus on all the good in my life.

Chocolate

Because…does there need to be a because?!?! And this isn’t just any chocolate, it’s pink and yellow and literally in the shapes of smiles and rainbows. Enough said.

Positive Affirmation Card

Possibly my favourite of all the contents of the bag was a beautiful message from Amy herself. A fabulous yellow card, emblazoned with ‘There is a rainbow waiting just behind those dark clouds I promise’.

It filled me with emotion and as I read on, the message within the card made me want to find Amy and give her a hug. This is one passage worth reading…

I just KNOW so many people would benefit from a delivery like this, just as I did, for whatever reason they don’t feel too spesh right now. Perhaps they are recovering from a pretty pants time, maybe they have suffered for a long period with mental health issues, or perhaps, like me, they have just found themselves in a bit of a crossroads and are trying to work it all out in their own head.

One thing I know is that I am so glad I asked for a second bag for one of my lovely readers…I wish I had a hundred of these bags so you could all have one, as well as a few people in my own real life circles. I have a sneaky suspicion a few of these bags may make it to under the Christmas tree this Christmas, and I’m sure you can all imagine at least one person who this is the perfect gift for.

Perhaps you.

So with that, a huge thank you to Funky Pigeon, to Mind, and to Amy for touching me this week, and I wish this campaign and product line the success it truly deserves. You can find the mindfulness and wellness line at www.funkypigeon.com in the personalised gifts section; 30% of all proceeds will be donated to Mind.

Plus of course, as is reinforced on all the #BelieveInHappy products, if you need some extra support or someone to talk to, see your GP or contact Mind directly on 0300 123 393 or text 86463.

x MMT

GIVEAWAY

In order to win a Happy Bag worth £25 containing all of the above,

enter via the rafflecopter widget on my

Giveaways Page Here

The Happy Bag

Disclosure: I was gifted The Happy Bag for the purpose of this post

Share Button
(Visited 115 times, 1 visits today)

18 thoughts on “#BelieveInHappy @TheFunkyPigeon Happy Bag REVIEW and GIVEAWAY #WorldMentalHealthDay @MindCharity

  1. Wendy Reply

    What a wonderful bag full of wonderful ness! I have entered the giveaway, I love this myself but can think of a few people who would benefit from this bag too. I hope you start to feel a bit better soon lovely, it’s not hard when you’re feeling lost and lonely and you can’t shake off the negativity in your mind. Sending positive vibes your way xx

  2. arosetintedworld Reply

    This sounds like a lovely idea. I’m sorry you aren’t feeling on top of the world. Thinking about you, remember that there are lots of people who are totally behind you! x #coolmumclub

  3. beautybabyandme Reply

    Thank you for posting this darling. I can identify so much with what you’ve said – being a SAHM, although a fortunate existence, is indeed a lonely one at times and it can make you wonder who you are and what you want. I love how honestly you’ve written about this. And what a wonderful little pick me up from Funky Pidgeon! I love the look of this goody bag – full of lots of positives and have of course entered xxx #coolmumclub

  4. thisscribblermum Reply

    This is a great idea! I love positivity anything! 🙂 #coolmumclub

  5. motherhoodtherealdeal Reply

    Love the idea of this! I have been struggling with the seasons change I have to admit…I always find this time of year hard so this is a lovely idea and giveaway!

  6. Claire Rocks Reply

    Oh my goodness this is amazing! ans for such a great cause too! #coolmumclub

  7. andrea upton Reply

    Thanks for your very honest post, the bag looks like a lovely idea

  8. Tracey Carr Reply

    This sounds like a gorgeous idea and I can already think of several people who would love to receive this as a gift (me included!). I think all of us can do with a bit of extra happy in our lives sometimes #CoolMumClub

  9. cheryl hadfield Reply

    Love the idea of this, a great cause and full of positives for the mind

  10. Debbie Denyer - Squidgydoodle Reply

    It’s really tough being a stay at home mum. It’s good that you’re talking about how you feel and have spoken to your partner about it. The Happy Bag sounds amazing! The perfect pick me up to send to a friend. I’ll enter the giveaway now. #CoolMumClub

  11. Laura Turner Reply

    It’s funny how we set such importance on education and learning growing up but give ourselves so little education into wellness and how to cope with life.It’s as if it’s something we’re just expected to get our heads round ourselves.

  12. sarah m Reply

    What a wonderful idea – I love this! Particularly the Positive Affirmation Card!

  13. thesingleswan Reply

    I am sorry that you are feeling low. I think we all go through transition phases in our lives when our current way of being doesn’t work for us any more. Have a think about what you need to do for you. Be a bit self-indulgent. You deserve it.

    In the meantime, I really love the Funky Pigeon happy bag. Pen x #coolmumclub

  14. The Queen of Collage Reply

    What a fantastic idea. I have Fearne’s books and her journal too. #CoolMumClub

  15. Charlotte Stein Reply

    This is s great idea! This would make my day when feeling low, actually anyday! #coolmumclub

  16. Leila Benhamida Reply

    Self care is really important for our health and mental behind. Great post.

  17. Natalie Crossan Reply

    I love the idea of the happy bag 🙂 xxx

  18. kimneville1 Reply

    These are a great idea to do to brighten up someone’s day

Leave a Reply

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.